In BDSM Aftercare is the recovery from a scene or play.
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Aftercare: Part One
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How to create your own personal aftercare plan
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Subspace
What is subspace? Subspace is sometimes described as an altered headspace, a floaty feeling, total bliss. Subspace is hard to define but simple to understand as a combination of both mental and physical experiences. With the mental experience you can get complete relaxation, calmness, equilibrium, tranquillity and serenity. The physical part is caused by the […]
Edging – more than just getting off If you hear someone talk about edging, unless they’re gardeners they are usually talking about a common form of orgasm control. ‘edging’ ‘surfing’ ‘peaking’ is building up to the point just before an orgasm and then reducing, changing or stopping all stimulation so that an orgasm isn’t achieved. […]
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Impact Play – Safety
Impact Play Safety
Hands These are possibly the most commonly used impact “tool” out there. Always ready and available for play, our hands provide a stingy sensation for the most part, but a clenched fist or heavy blow is certainly more thuddy. Our hands are relatively safe to use as they have a larger surface area, are by […]
Aftercare for Impact Play
Negotiation tips for Impact play
Stingy vs Thuddy The terms Thuddy and Stingy are used to describe the two main sensations that Impact Play can provide to a bottom. Thuddy Thuddy is a term usually used to describe a dull, deep, firm and solid sensation achieved during impact play. Items that either are used, or if wielded right could be […]
Types of Impact Play Spanking Spanking is a go-to kink activity for so many people, in and out of the lifestyle. It can be a fun way to spice up the sex-life, but also a great way to reinforce behaviours in a Power Exchange Dynamic, as both a punishment or a “funishment”. Generally, and traditionally, […]