In any dynamic there are usually some form of rules that have been pre agreed to which encompass things such as, daily routines, presentation, grooming, habits, speech, training, journals, clothing, chores and the list goes on. All of these rules have one key similarity and that is ‘The Spirit of the Rule’. This is the […]
Introduction There are many forms of exchange between a Dominant and a submissive in a D/s dynamic. The most common being communication, with that comes its own world of complications that you could run into. One of the more popular ones mentioned and discussed is Topping from the bottom and how to correct that style […]
In this second part of the Dom(me)’s Life two-part series on Kinky Goals and Resolutions, we’re looking ahead to the New Year. Here we’ll take our reflections from the past year (see part one of this series, if you haven’t already, for help on this), and we’ll use them to create meaningful protocols, goals &/or […]
Kinky Goals & Resolutions, Week One It’s that time again—the year is new and many people use this time to set goals and make resolutions for the calendar ahead. As lifestyle kinksters, we too can take the new year as a chance to reflect on our kinky journey and chart our course for what we’d […]
Sensory Deprivation Removing one or more of the senses in order to amplify the sensations of the remaining ones. It is a quick way to elevate feelings of vulnerability and submission, and can be disorienting as well as overwhelming. Temperature Play Simply put, temperature play is the act of using hot or cold to elicit […]
We talk about pride and issues facing the LGBTQ+ community – about parental rights, workplace discrimination, legalizing gay marriage… But one area that is often overlooked is healthcare, both physical and mental. Mental Health Depression and anxiety are very common in LGBTQ people, starting at a very young age. In a 2019 CDC report, it […]
creativeME Limerick Orgasms for me are really quite rare My Domme helped when one approached. “Whoa there!” With a twinkle she laughed Then she squeezed my shaft and now I am edging to nowhere By Currmudgeon – Dom(me)sLife Member
creativeME Limerick A cage to my Domme I supplied Gently she slipped me inside She added the lock Then tickled my cock Now my orgasm forever denied By Currmudgeon – Dom(me)sLife Member
It’s more fun than it sounds Orgasm control is an umbrella or catch-all term that covers a number of sub-categories. Orgasm denial Teasing and denial Edging Ruined orgasms Cumming on command Forced orgasms Post-orgasm torture Chastity. Simply put, it’s a broad term that covers a power exchange where one person has an aspect of their […]
Aftercare for Impact Play