Original writing from the wonderful subs of Diva’s Dungeon.
I don’t spend a lot of time looking at myself, but it doesn’t mean i don’t appreciate my body. Wearing panties for me is a symbol of my devotion to serve Mistress who chooses them, my willingness and pride in vulnerability. What it means to be naked, to look at myself, means really looking at […]
Calm your tits has become a fun phrase albeit part massagynistic in nature. Something very Jerry Springer comes to mind when i hear this being said, a fight so involved that tits become exposed, it’s kinda hot but the point is i have never seen it used as an insult, but always viewed it as […]
Understanding our reactions sometimes requires going deep, but how can you get there without overanalyzing and overthinking things. I love to say keep it simple, but it’s far down the road of solving problems, before you even understand what the problem is you need more. Writing helps a lot, talking as well, but it requires […]
Laugh. It’s not important why, just please laugh. I have to confess that at times i think i am slowly destroying the fabric of BDSM with mockery and meme, but ultimately what i really want, for everyone i come in contact with, for my incredible, beautiful and intelligent Mistress is to laugh together. Laugh at […]
How deeply that lust can feel, when the opposite of frenzy – the anticipation of nearness, reaches a tipping point that requires the lightest of touch, a tiny spark to ignite. I was reminded of a teaching moment, early in my journey i was introduced to sensation play with the application of rubbing alcohol to […]
Controlling yourself is not the same as having control, and the two can easily be confused. Lost submissives appear like zombies in the night, thirst has turned to drought and desperation is apparent, when self discipline is beyond reach. I see it in the passive approach lost submissives take with approaching Dominants, but i also […]
Something i notice when i travel are the different ways people acknowledge each other, from greeting to gratitude, it is easy to misunderstand and make judgement based on customs alone. Mostly i would say these are pet peeves of mine, but i do notice exchanges within the community that raise a Spockian eyebrow from me […]
There are many approaches newbies will take, and there are many reactions to expect from submissives according to their demeanour. New subs are very appealing to Dominants, but it really depends on the right fit. Exploring new kinks, fetishes and ideas for the first time is exhilarating and can be a very powerful experience if […]
It goes without saying what you thought of the BDSM community is not what you found, and what you thought you would like is different from reality, and the journey is something that takes a life of its own. Those are the given inconsistencies, but others can be much more easy to spot, the expectations […]
I used to take pride in my ability to conceal thoughts, as someone who does not easily display emotion i would often hear others comment about how they could not tell what i was thinking. It gave me an incredible ability to hear others, balance their emotions against the words they use, but the best […]