Chastity in the BDSM context is a form of Power Exchange, and can be used as sexual play or as a protocol within a dynamic.
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Chemical Play
Chemical play is a form of Sensation Play that involves the use of irritants to create various sensations before, during, or after play. The chemicals usually come in the form of a liquid, gel, oil or cream. When applied to sensitive areas like genitalia, nipples and anus the sensation can range from a mild tingle […]
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Abrasion Play
The Sensation Play Series What is Abrasion Play? What is the largest organ in the body? It’s your skin. Abrasion play is a form of sensation play. It is achieved by stimulating areas of the skin by rubbing, scratching, or pricking, using your body, an abrasive substance, tools, materials and various household items to sensitize […]
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Figging
What is Figging? ‘Figging’ is the practice of using ginger root for stimulation. It is a form of sensation play, although it can also be considered a form of chemical play. Figging causes a moderate to fairly intense sensation that varies a lot from person to person but it causes a sensation quite unlike any […]
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‘All Natural’
BDSM Chemical ‘All Natural’ Play Natural oils, herbs, spices, roots and seeds are great ways to incorporate different sensations into a scene while keeping things ‘all natural’. Think about the type of sensation you want to achieve; cool and tingly, hot and spicy, warm and relaxing and find a natural product to meet your needs. […]
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wax play
Wax play is a form of sensation play where hot wax, usually from a candle, is dripped onto the skin. It is relatively safe and easy to learn and can be very versatile.Kinksters enjoy wax play for a variety of reasons. The feeling of wax dripping on your skin can be painful, relaxing, or sensual. […]
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Sensory Deprivation
Suggestions for Sensory Deprivation Play Certain combinations work well with sensory deprivation; others require a bit more caution before proceeding. The following are suggestions of different types of play. Sensual Play A Starting Point Blindfolds are very common and easy to find and use. A silk tie makes a good start to sensual play. Without visual confirmation, […]
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Temperature Play
Temperature play is a form of sensation play, using the physical reaction of your nerve endings to trigger a response. Any object or substance that can feel cool or be chilled, feel warm or be heated can be used in temperature play. Temperature play is also a form of edge play, meaning with it carries […]
What are Pervertibles? A pervertible is simply a non-kinky everyday item that can also be used in a kinky manner. Pervertibles range from sensual and pleasurable items to evil sadistic, GET THAT THING AWAY FROM ME, items. If you’ll look around right now there’s probably a handful or more of items that can be used […]
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Impact Play – Safety
Impact Play Safety