Sex for me has always been about love. Sure in the early days of being sexually active i looked for an opportunity where ever i could, but i soon realized that it wasn’t sex that i craved. Instead it was the act of making love that i desired. I began turning down potential one night […]
During a time when my depression spiked, and I had difficulty being happy with myself, I was lucky enough to be offered guidance by the Woman who would later become my Mentor. She suggested meditation as a way to deal with the overwhelming despair I felt. I was skeptical of its benefits at the time, […]
Are people who take part in BDSM psychologically maladjusted? The Myth For people inexperienced and otherwise uninitiated in kink, the BDSM lifestyle may seem surreal. While a person who would consider themselves as “vanilla” (not kinky) may enjoy some hair pulling or light spanking, many see the image of BDSM as being whips, chains and […]
For my homemade kink toy, I converted a wooden coat hanger into a compact cane with a very stingy impact. First, I removed the cross bar from the hanger. the nice thing abut this was I could still use the rest of the hanger as it was intended to be used lol. Next, I removed […]
BDSM must involve the use of fancy tools and expensive equipment… The Myth The Task You are to make a BDSM themed toy or a piece of equipment using only items you already have laying around at home. You can re-purpose thing but you have to have made significant changes to it first. You can’t just […]
BDSM is all about pain and torture… The Myth “Please water board me, please I need it” I have never even heard of anyone uttering these words. To some is supposedly BDSM is all about pain and torture. There are a couple issue with this statement. One torture is involuntary where as BDSM requires consent. […]
Cotton Cotton is a good choice of rope for those who want a soft feel without the expense of some of the more high end types. Cotton is a good choice for beginners, it’s cheap, easily available and light to carry. It’s easy to work work, feels soft to touch, and has a little stretch. […]
First let’s define – suspension bondage is considered a form of sexual bondage. Generally a “bottom” will be bound by a “top” – rigger; and the bound person is hung from a suspension point or points. There are two main types; partial and full and generally accepted three main positions; vertical, horizontal, inverted. That being […]
First understand that anal play is enjoyed by both females and males and regardless of sexual orientation. Woman find anal stimulation pleasurable because the G-spot can be indirectly stimulated, while men may find it enjoyable since it directly stimulates their P-spot. There are various forms of anal play, which include anal fingering, anal fisting, anal […]
Indeed it is recognized that the “term” BDSM originated in 1969, yet the behavior and its’ practice has been known and enjoyed or practiced well prior to this date. There is archaeological evidence suggesting that the D/s sexual practices may date back to 5000 years ago! In research and writing of such, Anne Nomis discovered […]