Aftercare is the recovery from a scene or play, where a set of actions help the mind and body relate to the change in physical and emotion energy expended. It is common for feelings of sadness or a sudden emotional response to occur in the hours, and sometimes days following a scene. Coming up with […]
If you have a good sense of what your needs are, and you know the type of scene you are getting yourself into, it’s time to put your own list together of things you will need in order to create your own aftercare kit. The items in an aftercare kit will be different for everyone […]
There’s a movement afoot to reject technology, and seek more tangible things like records, paper journals, and book stores. There’s room for an analog version of kink as well, where a return to basics can be the equivalent of ‘kinking it old school’. Hand spanking, bare hand… Is that not still a thing? Sewing your […]
Lifestyle Discussion Topic: Submissive Goals Currently i don’t have very clearly defined goals in my submissive journey, in the past i have set goals to experience different aspects of BDSM, not specific to a role. I know it is semantics, but prior to joining the Dungeon, i never considered that i was on a journey […]
The topic of appreciating Women is extremely interesting to me. I have seen many male subs refer to feeling inferior, or feeling the need to submit to all Women and i never questioned it, but also never fully associated kink and gender as being linked. That being said, there are aspects of BDSM, specifically as […]
There’s room for everyone who finds the right fit for themselves and for others. All that is required is that you feel. You stretch. You laugh. You share. You surprise. You support. You care. These panties cover a lot, they are bright, they stretch and can feel so light, but i can always feel them […]
There’s no script for how you get to experience new things, take your time and never stop learning. There’s no one way of doing things, no mold that will fit everyone perfectly. Know what you like, and like what you know. Everything you don’t know is an opportunity to learn. These panties mold themself to […]
BDSM is an important influence on Fashion Since 50 Shades of Grey, BDSM has become more aware for the mainstream. This also lead in an increase of using BDSM clothes and styles in fashion. Designers already used elements of Punk, Goth and Rave cultures, whereas BDSM is no different. Items that were traditionally viewed as […]
Miss Seelie’s Week This week really made me think and analyze a lot about myself. I think it brought out some of the best in me. It meant a lot because I negotiated my first ever scene. I recognized my injuries and how it could impact play time. I got to combine impact, CBT, and […]
?Topic: Take a moment to reflect on what it means to appreciate Women, and share with the Dungeon what kinds of things you do in your day to day life that are in appreciation to Women. Also, see if you can come up with at least one more way you can further appreciate the amazing […]