Everyone seeing it at the same time is not what makes it special. Shared moments are what make it special. If a tree falls in the woods, and only a naked exhibitionist hears it, he doesn’t get wood. Don’t be afraid of what’s out there When you venture out into the wilderness, share your experience […]
Communication is not only a key factor for life,happiness and balance but in BDSM as well. Recently I did some research on mental health with BDSM and communication was one of the biggest factors for allowing those who practice the lifestyle to be more balanced and healthy mentally, which ties into this topic in many […]
There are a lot of writings about journals and how important they can be in a D/s relationship. I have read many over the years and a few have really struck me as either great resources to share or solid reminders of the meaning behind a journal. Funny enough though I personally never started one […]
Mistakes. You can’t make them on purpose but you can become an expert in the field. Second chances can be more rewarding than the first, because you learn more in the process. Trying hard and then trying hard again teaches you to learn from your mistakes, shows that you are willing to give twice the […]
Sounding. The name alone sent shivers down my spine. Whenever it was brought up in conversation I would quickly realize that I had something else to do and somewhere else to be. I mean really who would possibly want to put something into their penis… The visual combined with my imagination created all sorts of […]
The metronome set his pace, slow but unrelenting. The double sided dildo securely anchoring them together in a very physical manner, their unbreakable mental connection though was holding them in place even without it. His instructions were clear, he must keep going but could not cum until she allowed it, if she decided to allow […]
She watches him closely as he hungrily feasts on her, soaking in every inch of her beauty with his eyes. His arousal was obvious but he held steady to her command that he could touch her but not move once he did. His gaze met hers and their eye contact was filled with lust and […]
What if? But what if? But But Butt What if? Just do it cupcake Yes Mistress That was a cinch Don’t overthink. Just listen to your Mistress.
Why does it feel good? The opening of the anus is filled with nerve endings, and because the area may not be stimulated often, any pleasurable sensations there can made even more intense. Also, be cause it is advised to preform a slower approach when initially engaging in anal play, the build up can be […]
Self care is what you think you need, but do you allow room for others within your plan? Being flexible and including others can be challenging, but also is always rewarding. Sharing a coffee, an exercise, quiet time, if you incorporate others in your self care plan it can add meaning for you both. When […]