Where do you fit and what makes your submission unique? Is it important for you to fit a mold or an archetype? Everyone views this differently, but to me that means everyone is unique. Like these panties, black goes with everything, but it doesn’t mean they fit everyone the same. That’s what makes these panties […]
Why does it feel good? The opening of the anus is filled with nerve endings, and because the area may not be stimulated often, any pleasurable sensations there can made even more intense. Also, be cause it is advised to preform a slower approach when initially engaging in anal play, the build up can be […]
This task had me thinking for days, watching endless how to’s and reading about custom toys, furniture and hundreds of other crazy fun things. Once I had some ideas i started through what I had available to work with and here at the apartment it is quite bare… Tools and supplies are all there. I […]
Alone with an orgasm Recently I had the opportunity as a group task to attempt to orgasm through anal stimulation alone. Now when I say alone I am referring to completely alone both in other types of stimulation and physically being alone. Of course I have had plenty of orgasms by myself, stroking a quick […]
I was looking up a lot of sites and forums on the internet and picked my brain for the last days on how to approach this myth. There are no facts or studies about this anywhere i looked. Probably i have missed something because i tend to not see things that are right in my […]
This myth, like most myths, is born out of ignorance, inexperience, and misunderstanding. In my opinion one of the main roots of this myth is a misunderstanding or lack of thought of how control or power is exchanged in a Dominant/submissive relationship. This myth stems from the assumption that the power, control, or influence that […]
Sex for me has always been about love. Sure in the early days of being sexually active i looked for an opportunity where ever i could, but i soon realized that it wasn’t sex that i craved. Instead it was the act of making love that i desired. I began turning down potential one night […]
Are people who take part in BDSM psychologically maladjusted? The Myth For people inexperienced and otherwise uninitiated in kink, the BDSM lifestyle may seem surreal. While a person who would consider themselves as “vanilla” (not kinky) may enjoy some hair pulling or light spanking, many see the image of BDSM as being whips, chains and […]
BDSM must involve the use of fancy tools and expensive equipment… The Myth The Task You are to make a BDSM themed toy or a piece of equipment using only items you already have laying around at home. You can re-purpose thing but you have to have made significant changes to it first. You can’t just […]
How do you show your true colors as a submissive? Often subs approach the desire to show commitment and devotion by being “the most submissive” or having “the least limits” possible. The way i look at this question is to try to understand what makes me unique and my submission valuable. Color is how i […]