As this year closes I look back on it and try to put it into words that can describe the absolutely amazing and heartbreaking times that have occurred. A year filled with some of the highest highs and lowest lows that i can remember. From perfect certainty to complete devastation and all of the emotions […]
In Diva’s Dungeon we require all subs that enter our group to receive approval from any partners before joining, but why? When a sub enters our group they are agreeing to enter a relationship, and a pretty serious one at that. We take part in a lot more of a subs life than the bedroom, […]
Many subs enter our group with the aspiration of being mentored by a Domme, but what does that actually mean?
In Diva’s Dungeon we follow SSC and RACK, but what does that mean? Well, for starters SsC means Safe, Sane, and Consensual; and RACK sands for Risk-aware, Consensual, Kink. But it’s a lot more and not quite as simple as the acronyms may imply, let’s go through these letters one by one. Safe: You have […]
What a real Domme thinks when a sub says “I have no limits”: Naive Uneducated fool Hand down his pants wanker Clueless Dumb Unsafe Insane/Unstable Frenzied Why would I want that? What makes you think that a Domme cares how many limits you have or don’t have? It has nothing to do with me, and […]
Before engaging in impact play, there are a couple considerations, and some essential items to ensure safety as well as enjoyment. Warm Up As with any BDSM activity, start low and slow, especially with impact play. Sudden sharp blows without warm up strokes is very rarely considered pleasurable by most SM standards and can also […]
Indeed it is recognized that the “term” BDSM originated in 1969, yet the behavior and its’ practice has been known and enjoyed or practiced well prior to this date. There is archaeological evidence suggesting that the D/s sexual practices may date back to 5000 years ago! In research and writing of such, Anne Nomis discovered […]