I know right? What’s with millennials and their new ways of saying the same thing? (Ahlie means – i know right?) Millions of cliches support the use of slang, variety is the spice of life, walk a mile in… whatever, and i think changing our vocabulary is healthy and supports growth is a different way. […]
Mistress doesn’t like restraints. She likes to order Her subs to stand there, hold their position while She tortures their body with various implements of mass destruction. Floggers, whips, canes, paddles?? Not in this case, just 6 inches black Louboutin heels. AKA..the ballbusters! Watching Her slave stand there, holding his (well Her) balls up on […]
Effort doesn’t equal success, it’s a hard lesson to learn but a very valuable one when you expect an outcome based on your contribution. From childhood you hear expressions like just do your best, or you gave it your all, designed to give you a measurement of output that you can set as your goal. […]
Submissives in D/s relationship often feel the need to take responsibility over the happiness of their Dominant. It has nothing to do with topping from the bottom, or taking control, you can’t be responsible for your D’s happiness because it’s not your job. I could get into a Good Will Hunting rant on it’s not […]
This week we are exploring the psychology of kink in the Dungeon. Exploring the meaning behind different feelings through researching and understanding the connection to the mind behind the various aspects of D/s, as well as kinks and fetishes. The tasks for this week assigned by Lady A will require the submissives to share how […]
The Psychology of Kink August 26 2019 This week we are exploring the psychology of kink in the Dungeon. Exploring the meaning behind different feelings through researching and understanding the connection to the mind behind the various aspects of D/s, as well as kinks and fetishes. The tasks for this week assigned by Lady A […]
I don’t spend a lot of time looking at myself, but it doesn’t mean i don’t appreciate my body. Wearing panties for me is a symbol of my devotion to serve Mistress who chooses them, my willingness and pride in vulnerability. What it means to be naked, to look at myself, means really looking at […]
Calm your tits has become a fun phrase albeit part massagynistic in nature. Something very Jerry Springer comes to mind when i hear this being said, a fight so involved that tits become exposed, it’s kinda hot but the point is i have never seen it used as an insult, but always viewed it as […]
Understanding our reactions sometimes requires going deep, but how can you get there without overanalyzing and overthinking things. I love to say keep it simple, but it’s far down the road of solving problems, before you even understand what the problem is you need more. Writing helps a lot, talking as well, but it requires […]
Laugh. It’s not important why, just please laugh. I have to confess that at times i think i am slowly destroying the fabric of BDSM with mockery and meme, but ultimately what i really want, for everyone i come in contact with, for my incredible, beautiful and intelligent Mistress is to laugh together. Laugh at […]