During a time when my depression spiked, and I had difficulty being happy with myself, I was lucky enough to be offered guidance by the Woman who would later become my Mentor. She suggested meditation as a way to deal with the overwhelming despair I felt. I was skeptical of its benefits at the time, […]
Are people who take part in BDSM psychologically maladjusted? The Myth For people inexperienced and otherwise uninitiated in kink, the BDSM lifestyle may seem surreal. While a person who would consider themselves as “vanilla” (not kinky) may enjoy some hair pulling or light spanking, many see the image of BDSM as being whips, chains and […]
For my homemade kink toy, I converted a wooden coat hanger into a compact cane with a very stingy impact. First, I removed the cross bar from the hanger. the nice thing abut this was I could still use the rest of the hanger as it was intended to be used lol. Next, I removed […]
BDSM must involve the use of fancy tools and expensive equipment… The Myth The Task You are to make a BDSM themed toy or a piece of equipment using only items you already have laying around at home. You can re-purpose thing but you have to have made significant changes to it first. You can’t just […]
I’m far better at showing how i feel than i am at saying it. Often i show it without even knowing it. This is why when i know You are watching me, i blush. I can’t hide it. I do love it when You make me blush.
People who are into BDSM have more mental health issues than vanilla people… The Myth One common myth that you will run into as you journey down the winding stairway of the lifestyle on your way to the deep dark scary recesses of the Dungeon is that people who practice BDSM have more mental health […]
A person who is Dominant or submissive in ‘real life’ will prefer a similar role in BDSM The Myth Personality Types and Their Roles in BDSM I have heard the argument both ways, that Dominants and submissives are determined by their personality types – remaining consistent to or being opposite – in their everyday / […]
It was a cold day outside. Mistress said “what color panties do you want to wear?” I said: “PINK PINK PINK!!!” “What color will you write my name in lipstick on your body?” Mistress asked. “PINK PINK PINK” i replied. I imagine a pink cupcake and want more than anything for Mistress to devour it […]
The walls are not always lined, rounded edges, soft and serene. Stumbling at some point is guaranteed, so come prepared. Round out yourself, tools at the ready, there’s a soft landing if you create the runway. Soft words can cushion a hard landing and bubble wrap is easy to acquire. Add a little softness to […]
BDSM is all about pain and torture… The Myth “Please water board me, please I need it” I have never even heard of anyone uttering these words. To some is supposedly BDSM is all about pain and torture. There are a couple issue with this statement. One torture is involuntary where as BDSM requires consent. […]