Sex for me has always been about love. Sure in the early days of being sexually active i looked for an opportunity where ever i could, but i soon realized that it wasn’t sex that i craved. Instead it was the act of making love that i desired. I began turning down potential one night […]
During a time when my depression spiked, and I had difficulty being happy with myself, I was lucky enough to be offered guidance by the Woman who would later become my Mentor. She suggested meditation as a way to deal with the overwhelming despair I felt. I was skeptical of its benefits at the time, […]
BDSM must involve the use of fancy tools and expensive equipment… The Myth The Task You are to make a BDSM themed toy or a piece of equipment using only items you already have laying around at home. You can re-purpose thing but you have to have made significant changes to it first. You can’t just […]
It was a cold day outside. Mistress said “what color panties do you want to wear?” I said: “PINK PINK PINK!!!” “What color will you write my name in lipstick on your body?” Mistress asked. “PINK PINK PINK” i replied. I imagine a pink cupcake and want more than anything for Mistress to devour it […]
I was so happy when Mistress chose these pale blue panties so i could write about this. I read an article about the mid January blues after hearing many talk about being down, it’s a thing. It’s a really good thing, after you understand it, talk to others going through it, it’s a one to […]
It’s never a chore, each morning it’s the highlight, standing by the window, with a purpose and i would never want to miss a day. I have had to, but not by choice. Before, and after, there is routine, there is chaos, there is chore, there is pleasure, but in the moment there is only […]
How do you show your true colors as a submissive? Often subs approach the desire to show commitment and devotion by being “the most submissive” or having “the least limits” possible. The way i look at this question is to try to understand what makes me unique and my submission valuable. Color is how i […]
Self love and appreciation – A beginners guide to loving yourself In the era is social media, instant gratification is exponentially personified in likes, and comments, and just as quickly disappointment is magnified and self-doubt are amplified. In the context of BDSM, it is no different, but add to it an endorphin rush from a […]
There isn’t a one size fits all recipe for practicing lifestyle BDSM, or more specifically Femdom. Having regular protocols certainly sets the foundation however, wearing panties is just one example of something i do daily to make me feel special, wearing them for Mistress makes it special to us both. Often i will do things […]
They left a trail to find their way back each night, Hansel and Gretel. They got lost, their crumbs eaten by birds and could not find their way home. They should have used glitter, that way they would have a trail easy to find for months on end. My trail is one the leads me […]