I was so happy when Mistress chose these pale blue panties so i could write about this. I read an article about the mid January blues after hearing many talk about being down, it’s a thing.
It’s a really good thing, after you understand it, talk to others going through it, it’s a one to two week long drop.
Tips on how to deal with it in a kink friendly way:
- Don’t beat yourself up for feeling this way, beat Your sub or beat yourself with an implement
- Get together with friends, gather around the St. Andrew’s cross or strap into one
- If you stopped your regular routine, start again or begin a new protocol or two
- Stick to realistic goals, not resolutions but small contributions to your well being – like tying your balls, tying your breasts or someone else’s
Just ask someone else how they are feeling, you will both appreciate being able to say it out loud.