I will admit, this was a stated goal of mine. I’ve heard it and seen it from many since and i wish i could fast forward the clock for them and show them where this goal ends.
There’s nothing to prevent someone for just going and being a slut, there’s ethical sluts, there’s abusive sluts, there are even sluts who go by other names as forms or fetishes whereby they become shared by their owner’s will.
To anyone who feels this is a goal, please sit down and list the everything you like about the idea, then decide what is preventing you from reaching those objectives.
For me, i wanted to be seen so i was willing to dress the part, i was willing to act the part, but i was afraid nobody would notice. I wanted to perform sexual acts for the pleasure of others, but i didn’t enjoy the feeling of being used, i wanted to be unique and desired.
Those objectives were never going to be met by being a slut, but i found myself presenting this to a Domme, and in front of the BDSM community. It was exciting for me, it was fun for others, but it was not unique, and ultimately led to feelings of neglect, indifference and low self esteem.
Understanding how to please others, finding opportunities to present my unique talents, and sharing in discovering and evolving sexual practices and fetishes are all goals aligned with establishing a bond, growing as a submissive and contributing to the community.
These panties are unique, desirable and because Mistress chose them for me, pleasing to Her.
That’s what makes these panties special 😉
