It’s never a chore, each morning it’s the highlight, standing by the window, with a purpose and i would never want to miss a day. I have had to, but not by choice. Before, and after, there is routine, there is chaos, there is chore, there is pleasure, but in the moment there is only […]
She said those words and i panicked, i was frozen in my tracks unsure of myself and worried about what others would see, what they would say, what they would think. She said those words and i no longer wondered what others would see. She said those words and i suddenly had the courage to […]
How do you show your true colors as a submissive? Often subs approach the desire to show commitment and devotion by being “the most submissive” or having “the least limits” possible. The way i look at this question is to try to understand what makes me unique and my submission valuable. Color is how i […]
Pretty and pink, i close my eyes and the color doesn’t fade. The softness i can feel, so delicate and precious it only begins at the skin and travels deep inside me miles away from the source. It is hours before the feeling fades, yet closing my eyes, it is present again. Each time i […]
Just how intensely can you project your light before you burst into flames? As a service oriented submissive, your non-verbal cues are your actions. Your effort reflects your desire, and your fulfillment comes from the value of your output. There’s a balance that a service submissive needs to be reminded of, the value of the […]
Self love and appreciation – A beginners guide to loving yourself In the era is social media, instant gratification is exponentially personified in likes, and comments, and just as quickly disappointment is magnified and self-doubt are amplified. In the context of BDSM, it is no different, but add to it an endorphin rush from a […]
There isn’t a one size fits all recipe for practicing lifestyle BDSM, or more specifically Femdom. Having regular protocols certainly sets the foundation however, wearing panties is just one example of something i do daily to make me feel special, wearing them for Mistress makes it special to us both. Often i will do things […]
The purest of intentions and the purest form of submission exist within a realm of duality. Pain is pleasure, chores are a gift, and control means letting go. These lacy panties hold me where i need to be held, and still let the best parts of me show through. My day was explosive in so […]
They left a trail to find their way back each night, Hansel and Gretel. They got lost, their crumbs eaten by birds and could not find their way home. They should have used glitter, that way they would have a trail easy to find for months on end. My trail is one the leads me […]
Being comfy is sometimes what is required, legs up, icecream on the couch, nice romantic flick on TV. Sometimes it’s just about the conversation, knowing that you can share your thoughts and She will listen, and care, and let You lie around in your panties. Then She says, take off your clothes except for your […]