Miss Seelie’s Week This week really made me think and analyze a lot about myself. I think it brought out some of the best in me. It meant a lot because I negotiated my first ever scene. I recognized my injuries and how it could impact play time. I got to combine impact, CBT, and […]
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On its face this statement is true, but an explanation is necessary. This is a blanket one size fits all general statement and as most stereotypical statements it doesn’t hold up when truly analyzed. Using the logic that made this statement you could argue that shooting fireworks, cooking a roast in a pressure cooker, or […]
Are people who take part in BDSM psychologically maladjusted? The Myth For people inexperienced and otherwise uninitiated in kink, the BDSM lifestyle may seem surreal. While a person who would consider themselves as “vanilla” (not kinky) may enjoy some hair pulling or light spanking, many see the image of BDSM as being whips, chains and […]
A person who is Dominant or submissive in ‘real life’ will prefer a similar role in BDSM The Myth Personality Types and Their Roles in BDSM I have heard the argument both ways, that Dominants and submissives are determined by their personality types – remaining consistent to or being opposite – in their everyday / […]
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Refinement
There isn’t a one size fits all recipe for practicing lifestyle BDSM, or more specifically Femdom. Having regular protocols certainly sets the foundation however, wearing panties is just one example of something i do daily to make me feel special, wearing them for Mistress makes it special to us both. Often i will do things […]
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Partner Approval?
In Diva’s Dungeon we require all subs that enter our group to receive approval from any partners before joining, but why? When a sub enters our group they are agreeing to enter a relationship, and a pretty serious one at that. We take part in a lot more of a subs life than the bedroom, […]
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Mentoring in Diva’s Dungeon
Many subs enter our group with the aspiration of being mentored by a Domme, but what does that actually mean?
Indeed it is recognized that the “term” BDSM originated in 1969, yet the behavior and its’ practice has been known and enjoyed or practiced well prior to this date. There is archaeological evidence suggesting that the D/s sexual practices may date back to 5000 years ago! In research and writing of such, Anne Nomis discovered […]