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Suspension Bondage

First let’s define – suspension bondage is considered a form of sexual bondage. Generally a “bottom” will be bound by a “top” – rigger; and the bound person is hung from a suspension point or points. There are two main types; partial and full and generally accepted three main positions; vertical, horizontal, inverted. That being […]

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Subspace

Subspace is a combination of endorphins and other chemicals caused by a deep level of intimacy and arousal that creates an almost drug like high for most. It is usually found during an intense scene and the submissive may seem completely out of it, even unaware to different levels as to what is going on […]

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Anal Play

First understand that anal play is enjoyed by both females and males and regardless of sexual orientation. Woman find anal stimulation pleasurable because the G-spot can be indirectly stimulated, while men may find it enjoyable since it directly stimulates their P-spot. There are various forms of anal play, which include anal fingering, anal fisting, anal […]

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Ball Stretching

What is ball stretching and why? Ball stretching is done for many reasons. Some enjoy the aesthetics and ball envy of having a pair of low hangers, while others enjoy the swing of a pendulous pair of balls. Others will declare they enjoy the feeling of an elongated orgasm. Personally I love all of the […]

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Prostate Milking

Milking Report I informed Mistress that milking was something that interested me, and She asked me to research the topic so i could learn more about it and how it could help while I am in chastity. In my research I discovered that there are many uses for prostate milking, many of them related to […]

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TENS Research

What is a TENS unit? The most often used machine for electro sex is a TENS unit. Their original medical use was for the relief nerve or muscle pain, lots of women use it to ease labour pains, but they can also be used for pleasure purposes. TENS units consist of two parts: a power […]

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A Guide to Protocols

I love my protocols, I know it’s not a kink or a fetish, but it is so impactful to my every day routine that going without them is now a hard limit for me. Here are some considerations for creating protocols, a guide for Dommes and subs. What is a protocol A protocol is any […]

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BDSM – It’s Culture Throughout History

Indeed it is recognized that the “term” BDSM originated in 1969, yet the behavior and its’ practice has been known and enjoyed or practiced well prior to this date. There is archaeological evidence suggesting that the D/s sexual practices may date back to 5000 years ago! In research and writing of such, Anne Nomis discovered […]

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Denial, its power, and how it effects us

Denial has a lot of emotional and physical effects for the submissive undergoing it, it is also a tool to be used by the Dom(me) to have a stronger emotional hold over a sub. Although everyone is different Denial tends to affect subs in phases, these are caused by the change in hormone levels as […]

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Dacryphilia

 largely understudied fetish, dacryphilia can often be broken down into 2-5 subcategories (depending on who you ask). 1.sexual arousal from someone displaying strong emotion2.sexual arousal from the emotional release that accompanies crying (i.e., an emotional catharsis). There are a couple more specific subcategories(voyeuristic, lower lip, ext…), but these two specifically seem to be the most […]